We've had a few visitors since the kids have been home which is a mixed blessing. We love to see new and old friends and family but it can sometimes put a stress on the kids; their anxiety level goes up which most people don't even notice. A lot of attachment experts recommend a period of 3 - 6 months of a very closed world for kids who are dealing with trauma and transitioning to a new family. I'm not quite sure who can pull that off but we have done our best to keep our world small since the kids have been home with us.
But the month of May will be a big one for our family. Robin's mom lives by us and we see her every week and spend our Sunday mornings together. But Peter & Gaelle met my parents for the first time last week. Tomorrow Josh comes home and then May 27 Emily comes home. I'm thrilled but I know it's going to create anxiety in the kids and we'll see it in so many ways. Hopefully we'll stay patient and the teens in the house will be understanding. I, for one, am excited to create a new normal.
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This is a great picture Beth!! Praying and sending hugs! Carol
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